Good.
That was all I ever wanted from neighbors too.
Respect boundaries.
Help when needed.
Leave each other room.
Karen believed community required control.
I think community requires consent.
That’s the difference.
Her system could order.
Fine.
Threaten.
Approve.
Deny.
My version is messier.
Ask.
Explain.
Offer.
Decline.
Try again.
Humans negotiating.
Less efficient on paper.
More resilient in practice.
When Karen appeared at the dissolution vote, she asked whether I thought I had won.
I gave her a diplomatic answer.
Years later, I know the real one.
No one wins a story that begins with waking inside a burning home.
I lost things that cannot be replaced.
Trust.
Sleep.
My original cottage.
Some photographs.
The feeling that being technically outside the HOA meant its politics could not reach me.
Residents lost money.
Time.
Comfort.
Confidence.
Karen lost her position and faced criminal consequences.
Gregory lost authority and reputation.